Here's what I have learned in the class so far.....
NO COERSIVES/ Punishment.
such as logic, threats, arguing, questioning, despair, sarcasm, taking away privileges, silent treatment......
IGNORE JUNK BEHAVIOR
that would be like yelling, jumping around, being obnoxious....
pay attention to something else, like a child with good behavior.
from an undesirable behavior to a desirable one
any GOOD behavior with GOOD STUFF.
also bad behavior gets NO good stuff.
Set Expectations with Child
LIke "I know you can do it"
So parents what do you think about this?!?!?!? I know this is in a nutshell....